Might I ask how you qualify "better" (sounding) in this case?
Some people feel that exclusively using "he him his" effectively erases half the population when such language is used in discussing a topic.
The free speech we all enjoy stops being fair, equal, and "just an opinion" when it is suddenly reinforced and backed up by influence, the ability to suggest policy, to set an example for behabior and tone, etc.
As an admin moderator, I would have expected you to take more care with a more friendly neutral choice of words.
"sounds better in your opinion" doesn't make it right.
Stuff like "themself" just sounds wrong. "Them" and "they" are plural. If you use such words in a singular sense, you either need to fill the sentence with plural words (e.g. "they are"), which makes the sentence ambiguous and often sounds strange, or you need to break agreement rules (e.g. "they is"), which sounds
really bad.
"He", etc. are the appropriate singular words to use when talking about someone of unknown gender. "Masculine" pronouns don't really imply any gender. Using masculine pronouns is how this issue has traditionally been handled in English.
Plenty of other languages are "unfair" in this way. In French, if you're talking about a group of people which contains any males, you always use the male form of "they".
Je comprends, mais
il y a des personnes qui préfèrent l'option plus juste.
The issue with using masculine pronouns is that they, as implied by their name, are masculine. This causes confusion. How would you refer to a male, if the masculine pronoun is used instead as a neuter pronoun?
"They are" is not a problem. It's identical to "You are", which is also ambiguous in the same way ("You (p) are" has the same spelling as "You (s) are"). Even French has this ambiguity, "Vous êtes" and "Vous êtes" are spelt identically, while one is formal singular and the other is plural.
"They" is a natural choice because it is commonly used in speech. Therefore, application to writing in an informal context is simple.