not getting a single connection, Chain dead, 0 vol on exchange, Gladimor silent and absent.  Not looking good at all!!!

Try this for connections:
94.22.185.125:31414
37.201.246.66:31414
If you've got some free inputs we could at least do something about that stuck chain.

Connections are often somewhat tricky with wallets. I've lost connection to the first IP for a while but it's back again. Then, is there no way to connect to the wallet on Yobit or the explorer or am I just unsuccessful there as well?

If you're on block 34671 already and all your coins are listed under Stake and nothing under spendable then yes, your coins are locked.

started my wallet up again and now its got 1 connection but seems stuck at 33080 . Trying to send a load of small blocks from Yobit,  first 1 looks sent , 0 confirms as yet??

My wallet is on 34670. I'll setup a new node shortly, so you can sync and probably stake.

EDIT: done. IP is 104.238.176.80 (so 'addnode=104.238.176.80' or 'addnode 104.238.176.80 add') . It is synching now from my local PC wallet...

EDIT 2: sync complete. Let me know in case of any problem connecting to that.

ok iv added yr node, getting 1 connection now , says catching up but still at block 33060! will leave wallet hopefully will sync!?

SFR ?? 

2 months since the last sign of life, it's not looking good for sure. 

You are still confident on this one ?
Invest in the true DCR, I mean Decred : it's traded at Poloniex now. Price will spike very soon. Abandon DCRE and buy DCR.

Maybe someone can takeover this project ?