What I'm trying to say is if a large percentage of the miners switch to classic but we, the users, stick to core - then those miners will be mining block rewards they can't spend because they will be on a fork that we don't accept as valid.
Thus by running a full client, we get a say in how bitcoin progresses rather than leaving it up to the miners and commercial web wallet companies.
coinbase may like classic but coinbase will have to stick with core if the userbase sticks with core. That's the security we provide.
Right. By having *your*
full node wallet verify the validity *your* transactions, your transactions don't get confirmed until *your* block (block valid for *your* fork) gets solved. Which is *never* (because the miners aren't solving it, they're solving *their* blocks, which adhere to *their* ruleset, and are acceptable to *their*
full nodes wallets). That's if they don't allocate a fraction of their hashpower to mess with your fork.
In the meantime, those who have switched to the miners' fork are getting their transactions verified every 10 minutes.
And those who are using thin/web wallets (all but ~4,000 users) are getting their transactions verified every 10 minutes too, because relying on other nodes (most of which are miners' VM nodes, which the miners are running for roughly $7/mo each, or about $28k/mo for 4,000 of them (probably much less because bulk).
Now tell me about how your full node is more than a good wallet, how VM nodes do not matter & enjoy your worthless coins

I don't give a rats ass about VMs or how many there are running whatever the hell they want to run.
By running a full node, I choose which branch my transactions happen on. You can call it a fancy wallet - but I don't really care for semantic games, those are usually played by arrogant people who know they don't have a point but are too prideful to admit it.
So by running my fancy wallet, I choose which fork I'm active on. When you or anyone sends me coins, it is valid on that fork or it isn't valid.
So when we, the users, run a full nodes - we, the users, decide which fork the block reward has value on - because if the miners decide they like classic (doubtful but hypothetical) and try to force us into it even though we, the users who buy coins, prefer core - then the coins those miners mine will be worthless because they can't sell them to us.
Thus they will mine what we, the people running full nodes, er, I mean fancy wallets continue to use - giving a balance of power because their block rewards are worthless if they can't sell the coins to us.