My main concern with it is that I'm worried about getting hacked and all my coins stolen. I really have no idea what I'm doing when it comes to anything technical like that, and I was wondering if I should be using any other programs besides virus scan software and spybot to keep myself safe when trading bitcoins.
You need to do at least 2 things to make your bitcoins safe (not 100% safe, but safe enough for everyday usage).
1. Switch to Linux or BSD (or at least switch the computer having Bitcoin installed)
2. Use Truecrypt.
3. (optionally) Don't install anything outside of the official repositories of Your distro. Otherwise You risk potential downloading of some malware.
And i mean it not because I'm some kind of Linux fanboy.
I say that deadly seriously: if you want Your bitcoins safe, don't use windows.