How come for 27 days that I have staked that I have 10 false confirmations for a total of 5,046.99 rain lost

? I have staked 16 times for a total of 11,080.34. I started with two blocks, one of 10,000.99 and a second of 57,332.54 for a total of 67,333.53, I now have 78,413.86. Should I do something different to stake these coins more consistently or more frequently?
I've actually had zero orphan blocks while staking rain, but I've gotten a lot while staking another coin. Nobody has ever been able to tell me anything about why this happens other than "bad luck" unfortunately.. :-/
PS. I actually prefer to break my coins into smaller blocks within my address. It seems to make me stake more often. Might be worth trying for your wallet.