you're not even gonna show alpha before ICO? Sounds fishy to me.
In our experience, releasing software before it's ready is never a good idea. And the main reason for the ICO is so that we can get it ready faster.

i do not see much interaction on slack or this site from our dev's i am not sure this is going to be good investment if all ready they dissapear
We try to answer all the questions as they come in, but keep in mind that a) we're a small team and b) it's a very busy time for us - just 10 days until we launch the ICO. Bear with us.
But I am not yet sure whether I can just submit my ETH address or it is not accepted.
So, we're getting this a lot. Just to avoid any issues (including human error), we advise people to generate a separate ETC address. It's free and takes a minute, so why take unnecessary risks?