[1] So when a channel is open where are the records stored?
[2] is each transaction stored or is only the final decrement or increment stored or only
[3] When a channel is closed are all the records gone excepting the final records and do they have to go to the blockchain at that point?
This document is really what you need to read. It explains in details the proposal and how it does work. I will quote below some sentences from the above document. As far as I know, the balances are updated between cooperating parties (lets say Alice and Bob) in the channel. To broadcast, the channel can use a timelock. Also, when parties disagree, the last agreed transaction is broadcasted. Close a channel means broadcast the channel balance/last transaction. I suggest you to read the paper though...
"Instead, both parties can commit to signing a transaction and not broadcasting this transaction. So if Alice and Bob commit funds into a 2-of-2 multisignature address (where it requires consent from both parties to create spends), they can agree on the current balance state [...] This refund is not broadcast on the blockchain." page 5
"In the case of micropayment channels, only two states are required: the current correct balance, and any old deprecated balances." page 5
"This invalidation process can exist through a process of channel consensus where if both parties agree on current ledger states (and building new states), then the real balance gets updated. The balance is reflected on the blockchain only when a single party disagrees." page 6
"By encumbering the Bitcoin transaction outputs with a hashlock and timelock, the channel counterparty will be unable to outright steal funds and Bitcoins can be exchanged without outright counterparty theft. Further, by using staggered timeouts, its possible to send funds via multiple intermediaries in a network without the risk of intermediary theft of funds." page 6
"Both parties can update the balance inside the channel with whatever output balances they wish, so long as its equal or less than the total funds committed inside the Funding Transaction; balances can move in both directions." page 29