0.2 is fine. But there was 22 min gap between blocks and u set deadline to 12 min. That's why it wasn't comfirmed and returned back to u.

I have no idea, this coin seems to be little brain$*@#ing right now
What to do? How to live?

In the long run u will mine 1 block of 10000 (0.01%).

Ok, thanks. What about block reward, how is that decided?

People attach fee to each transaction. They decide themselves how much to pay. Block can contain not more than 255 transactions at the moment, so when we get higher transaction flow ppl will start competing which will result in higher fees paid.

Suggestion - can you update the original post in this thread with:
1 - the current version number of the NXT client (i.e. the Nxt.zip
2 - a link to the current version

Also, when you update the version on your local machine:
a- do you need to delete all the other files, or just copy over the new Nxt.zip? If the answer is 'no', what would happen if you did delete all the other files?

b- what happens if your account is unlocked on another PC using an older version? Will that cause a problem (i.e. mining, send/receive)?

Which is why I suggested to start a new thread. CfB replied with suggesting that I do it, but I don't feel that I have enough authority to do such a thing. But CfB doesn't seem to want to either.

I don't want to do it as well. I'm tired with all this marathon.

Why do i have 10 blacklisted peers? is that normal?

It's normal. U should unblacklist them time to time by clicking purple tray icon.