I think nobody can control or own the bitcoin system like they can not control and possess the technology by email and the internet. I think Bitcoin is no different than a mobile application or program that offers a personal Bitcoin wallet and allows users to send and receive Bitcoin.
Your first statement is correct but your second statement is wrong. Bitcoin is unlike any other technology because it utilizes the blockchain. With blockchain, smart contracts can be done when process of transaction occurs. This adds security to both the buyer and the seller.