Still stuck at 22680 (688%) - have restarted a few times - a little frustrating not to see any new blocks for so long.

it IS on a static ip

I use it for several month.
Dedicated server (Debian), running 24/7 with high load.
ping is 30ms average.

U r supposed to accept only 24h+ deposits, rn't u?

It does not seem to be under attack any more. How do we know it is under attack?

What are the grounds for blockchain reorg, does the longest chain not always win?

No, why, are we?

It might take so long from us but that's nowhere a rule, should it be?

- I think we must test thoroughly every new version on test net (including the simulation of zombie attack) before publishing it.  I am intentionally bought separate VPS for this. I had installed v.0.4.1e, but without long testing it becomes 0.4.2 ...

May be we all need to install 0.4.0 ?  Could you re-publish it ?

yeah go for more RAM option.

After a restart my local node orhpaned a lot of blocks and see

22838      2272518827060030688      23.12.2013 13:48:38   
1      0 + 1      141 B   
1      10157123316436172957      811 %