Just so everyone using darksend understands, if you are trying to send it COULD take a while for it to go through, it needs a minimum of 3, currently, inputs to process. If no one is currently "Darksending" your transaction will just be in the queue to be sent.
Since the newest version was just released today it COULD take awile for others to do a transfer to make your transaction to go through. After more and more people are using the service it will get faster because there will be more transactions.
So is the wallet using me as a peer to darksend?
I launched the wallet after a failed Darksend then re-opened it and saw the Darksend status was "signing".
Hope this doesn't corrupt my wallet.