got a respons from mintpal ... they say all was good, all was credited but actually have 23 drk on mintpal when the blockchain say 38 ...
http://chainz.cryptoid.info/drk/address.dws?238976.htm

Wait... I feel like you are trying to tell us something...

No, since the latest update, you must also create a masternode private key.

at the beginning of step 15, do this before anything else:


Save the output you get from this and add it to this part of step 15


The rest of step 15 should remain the same .
Note: if you already have
set in your darkcoin.conf, you will need to change it to
before the genkey command will work. If you are starting from scratch, you should be fine because the masternode= key isn't defined yet and defaults to =0.

Hope that helps

Well that saves me digging through the thread, thank you so much for that 

Not yet redeemed means that the coins you sent haven't yet been spent.
If you see the transaction, then the coins have been properly sent as far as the blockchain is concerned.

i am shure this was discussed earlier... but anyway it is importatn not only for me...
today i was setting up my own wallet on my mac to get my funds from the exchanges for security reasons...
i decided to do the following to secure my wallet.dat. after transfering my coins i formatted 2 USB sticks
than i copied the wallet.dat on the first stick  - and moved the wallet.dat on the second stick...
now there is no wallet.dat on my computer anymore. next time before i start the darkcoin-qt i will move the wallet dat from one of the sticks back in place.
the question i can not answer myself... is moving the file realy moving it or is the wallet.dat still somewhere on my computer... and can be found by an hacker in case he can find a way to get into my mac???
thank you for an anwer that is non technical enough for me

Submit a ticket telling them that there is a difference between the balance of your account, and the balance of your assigned address.

I don't think it will be in the file system anywhere. However it may still recoverable from the hardrive, using recovery software. As long as you have a strong enough password on it nobody should be able to access the coins even if they did happen to get hold of the file.

MintPal and other exchanges don't use the blockchain to maintain your account, they only use it for deposits & withdrawals, you balance is only maintained in their internal database.
Whenever they make a withdrawal, they will happily take amounts from whichever deposit address.

It's also why you can't use an account on an exchange (and many web wallet services) to bet on services like satoshi dice. Satoshi dice will send back your wins at the address that placed the bet, but for an exchange, that can be any of the deposit addresses.

That's also why if an exchange goes under or messes up its database backups, you can lose a lot, even if they were never hacked, that's what happened to bitomat http://siliconangle.com/blog/2011/08/01/third-largest-bitcoin-exchange-bitomat-lost-their-wallet-over-17000-bitcoins-missing/

Ok ... so i'got fucked by the darksend mixing ...

what can i do now ?