I would say you nailed this one bullseye with one shot. I think your real concern isn't our "safety" it's yours. Sooner or later one of these alt-chains are going to replace Bitcoin if Bitcoin doesn't do some seriously needed updating and improvements.
You know it, I know it and so does everyone else.
Sometimes the truth isn't all warm and fuzzy, sometimes it's just plain brutal.
I'd like to point out that there is no particular reason why several chains with different properties can't coexist.
For instance, there could be one well-established, reliable chain with only the most needed, most tested and most secure features, and a [pimp] fast-blocked, permanently experimental (sorta like TOR is always experimental forever ) feature-rich one [/pimp]

, as well as dedicated-purpose chains like Namecoin and such.
Also, coins with different degrees of "necessary centralization" might exist, with userbase preference being driven by how comfortable they are with a given net's distribution of "powers that be"
Bitcoin, due to its prominence, has become "serious business". That necessitates a very conservative approach to development.
[pimp]That's why I started a fork with a more lighthearted approach to ... pretty much everything [/pimp]
