hey, have you seen the bitcoins now? If you have not then i must say you should forget about it and move on. Its possible you might have made a mistake when carrying out the transaction, thus the reason why the bitcoins didnt arrive. Anyway, i do hope you have received them now.
This case is already resolved and closed. It seems like the OP firstly used a fee that was to small and that's why the transaction didn't appeared in his wallet. After sending the transaction with a higher fee, it quickly got confirmed and now everything is alright.