1. check out lightning mailing list, they're discussing a solution to that basic problem
2. if you don't want bigger nodes to force you into doing something you don't want, don't use them. There are thousands of nodes already, and the total liquidity is still very low. There will be ample opportunity for people with good intentions to run LN nodes, and those people will have their good reputation rewarded
3. why would everyone close their channel at the same time? That would take extraordianry co-ordination of every single person on the LN
Lightning reduces the need for onchain transactions by thousands of times, that increases overall capacity beyond anything that could feasibly be achieved on-chain. Settling off-chain will happen increasingly less as Lightning protocol matures, i.e. most of the money entering channels will stay in channels.
So saying "Lightning depends upon on-chain capacity" is very true now, beacuse 1000BTC is a low amount of BTC to serve everyone's needs. Later on, that amount will be much higher, settling will be less necessary, and so on-chain capacity will barely impact Lightning usability (and on-chain capacity will be massiely freed up anyhow, because small and frequent transactions are cheaper & faster off chain)
you need to become much better informed about lightning before you can attempt the role of providing others with information
I appreciate your response but I find your points unconvincing.
1. I will.
2. This entirely overlooks the argument I made. I'm saying that the way LN is set up today might eliminate that choice to some extent (when transaction quantities are lower than the on-chain fees). Your response wasn't relevant to this point.
3. This also is a flawed response. Just because you can't see a reason for it to happen, doesn't mean it can't/won't. No one thought a bank run would happen before the Great Depression, yet it did. I can imagine several scenarios where this could be a reality. For example, say we saw a dramatic overall economic crash (or a crash of Bitcoin and crypto) and people needed to withdraw their assets to pay for their bills. This could result in a series of panic sellling.
Why do you think that most money entering channels will stay in channels? Regardless, I don't disagree with you. But that's not the point of my comments.
I appreciate your response, but I don't appreciate you not addressing my questions and then stating how I need to be "much better informed."