Well, they ask questions both online and offline. And considering the fact it wasn't monetized from the onset, I just can't find it being monetized anymore. Tho I'm doing this for bitcoin too, the stress isn't easy.
Well, some of these people will be choosing beggars (and they'll react as such), however, it should still be possible to give those people a choice... I don't think it's unfair to tell people that want extensive private advise tailored to their specific situation at a time that's convenient for them that you simply do not have the time to help everybody for free, so that you'll be offering private tutoring at a nominal fee. If they don't like this, they're welcome to join one of your future (pre-planned), free public meetups, but that any elaborate question outside of these meetups will be billed.
Offcourse, if you're going to bill somebody, you'll have to have something to offer: don't bill them for simple (stupid) questions you can answer in a couple of seconds, make sure you have in-depth knowledge about the subject they want to discuss and plan some time exclusively for them.
BTW: make sure you're being payed BEFORE giving advice. I used to help people out that offered bounties after their problem was solved, it was VERY rare to actually get payed. Usually, those people dissapear after they've been helped, and i'd rather help somebody that was clear about not paying upfront than somebody that offers payment but dissapears afterwards.