If people do opt-in a transaction as RBF, they will not be able bump fee later with RBF. They will have to use Child-Pay-For-Parent transaction.
Sorry man, i can't get your point clearly.
Once the transaction is added into a block, you can't be able to use any feature as you don't need eny of them anymore.
I you are the sender, you can always enable the RBF option so if the transaction dely to get confirmed because of the lack of mining fees, you will be able to broadcast another transaction using the same details of the first transaction [unconfirmed one].
If you are the receiver, make sure that you are using a client where you can enable the option of CPFP which allows you to spend unconfirmed outputs. Create another transaction with higher fee, the miner will have to confirm the parent transaction before going with the child transaction.
Electrum for both mobile and desktop is the best option for those who are not familiar with bitcoin transactions .