I have planned that but for now no, the children are still not grown up so he will not understand for now, my wife is still not sure even though I believe in her, but I have talked to her that I have kept some seed phrase reserves that she will definitely know later I will also inform her more clearly.
Yeah, I'm planning to pass it on to the kids, I want to know how the kids will like it, whether he will like bitcoin or something else I can't be sure, let him choose his own path.
It's better to talk to your wife than to keep it to yourself without anyone knowing.
Although there is a bit of mistrust (that's normal) it must be done for the security of your assets.
Your children will have to choose their own path, but when Bitcoin is earning enough money who wouldn't be interested?
Your children will be adults who will have an idea of how they make money and your assets will be valuable assets.
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I believe my wife is the right person to have a backup of the seed or privatekey of my bitcoin address, but I believe not everyone will trust their wife 100% for high value assets. But ultimately it's up to you to adapt how you inherit your bitcoins to whoever is entitled to receive them.
It's each person's choice. Adjust to your situation, if there is someone more trustworthy of course you have to make sure he is really trusted.
Your wife is the one who always accompanies you and she is also close to your child, so who else can be that close but your wife.