The thing called trust is indeed very difficult to build and giving trust to other people is not an easy matter because being able to judge someone's good and bad takes a lot of time. However, the easiest way we can find out whether our friend can be trusted or not is by lending him a certain amount of money, if he can return the money according to the agreement or provide clarification/logical reasons as to why he is unable to pay off his debt, then Maybe we can trust that person. However, if the person continues to make unclear speculations and continues to avoid us when they collect their debt, it can be concluded that we cannot trust that person.

And once again, giving trust is not an easy matter. However, as social creatures we need each other, we cannot do everything just by relying on ourselves, especially in the world of work which requires good teamwork so that a goal can be achieved. And to be able to form good teamwork, that is by trusting each other.

It's not a problem for me since I do have a friend or family that I can trust with that important matter.

I'm grateful that I have these kinds of people who I believed won't do some bullshit on me especially when it comes to money. But I know in reality and it really exists in most parts of the globe that there are families and even close friends that have a history of distrust even how solid the relationship is just because of money.

Anyway, I do have someone who knows where my personal keys are stored such as PINs, bank account passwords, and even Seedphrase. Even if I will bet my life on it, nothing bullshit will happen to my private belongings because of that said person I have mentioned. I do understand though that there are people who have trust issues toward someone because of a bad experience.

No I cannot trust a person with 100% trust.  I can trust my parents with my things even my money and anything that has something to do with finances.  I can also confide with them but there are some experiences that needs to be private.


I can trust my parents with my ATM pin same goes with the private key of my cryptocurrency wallet address.  I am still single, although I am incline to trust my gf with my ATM pin, but I won't be revealing it to her unless she asked me to.

Its kind a funny, but two of my brothers, and 1 cousin do know my ATM pin, the reason is I keep nothing in my bank account haha  and the reason of not sharing the seed phrase is, I kept all of my funds in crypto. Well, I did wrote seed phrase somewhere and have told my youngest brother about it just in case of sudden death or unexpected events. Otherwise, I will also not trust anyone.

And in fact we should not, a recent scam occur with one a friend, who is scammed by his friend, and the scam was around 85 lac ($30623.96), well, if the amount would not be gone, then he could buy 1+ BTC easily at the current rate. The thing is, he trusted his friend with his bank and allowed him to use it and he withdrew all the funds and flew away to Malaysia, the thing is he was his friend for the last 15 years.

I learnt a lot from this, but still scared of the world out there, we can not predict what is going on the other's head, even though, you are so close to them.

People trust for some reasons, they trust naturally or after someone ha done something for them but all in all, it's not enough to give human all the trust because they are human. They can be in a inconvenient situation tomorrow and can compromise you, only few of them are gems out there that will not see you for anything no matter what is put on the table; So if you must trust, you also need to be careful of people bit personally, I don't trust people but I share this bond with my family that they will not betray me, I have been there many times and they have given what worth more than anything I could I ever have.


There are things that are supposed to be kept within me, they are private and nobody not even my family are meant to have access to it. What do you need my ATM pin for? Why should I trust you with my seed phrase? There is none. My investment or savings is my responsibility unless may be my wife want to have access to it which I can be cool with so long that we have children together, I can do it for that sake but not my brother, sisters or father and mother. They will probably ignore me if I ask them there pin or seed phrase.

Giving trust depends on you, and there are a lot of people who easily give 100% trust. One of them is those people who, even if they don't know 100%, immediately give their full trust to more than their family, relatives, and close friends.

These are the people who fall victim to Ponzi schemes, large sums of thousands of dollars that they entrust because of the greed that existed and entered their thoughts, so they gave full trust because of the thought that they would make money immediately or their capital would grow in a short time.

Now, I can easily give trust when I know if I love the person and if it is important to me. One of them is my wife and my best friend, whom I trust 100% with the seed phrase or private key that I have.

Well that's on you and the people you've been with if you can't trust anyone anymore. I've been with scheming and people who are not trustworthy but between them and the overwhelming amount of people that I know I can trust and count on, I'm pretty sure I'm good. Friends for the most part, family not so much but this is only in the case of business matters as none of them are that much versed in the world of entrepreneurship and they might just fuck things up. People I care most about are trustworthy and I've witnessed that from years of interaction with them, oftentimes with money involved in the equation. I feel sorry for you that you can't trust people anymore as much as most of us could, to which I say you should find new friends you can actually trust.

there's reason why banks are always warning you from disclosing your ATM pin to someone else, its for your own money security so that it won't get stolen and even it indeed got stolen you know its not your mistake.
thats the thing with money, no one could really held back from the desire of getting money, even if its your close relative.
you might be having some significant one that you can trust but thats only if you're okay with it and knowing the consequences.
i personally would never trust my ATM pin to other people same with my wallet, who knows they might be taking advantage of me and its just for peace of mind thing.

Trusting someone is certainly not an easy thing, even if it is our sibling and I think in this case we trust our parents or siblings more because in my opinion the closest people are parents and siblings because parents and siblings are related by blood. which of course is the only thing that can be used as a trustworthy first choice.

but it cannot be denied that we are social creatures who certainly need other people in life in this world, but in this case I think the most important thing is intelligence in managing the economy and in my opinion we should not be too afraid of the risk of loss because usually every thing we do always cannot be separated from the risk of loss.

and regarding the ATM pin number, in my opinion we are forced to trust someone even though in our minds there is always a feeling of distrust, but in this case of course we are forced to trust other people because we are social creatures who of course need each other. so enjoy this life, don't be too afraid of risks and most importantly don't put your money in one place, the point is we have to be good at managing strategies.

Life is inherently fair, if in this world you can't trust anyone, don't expect or blame others when they don't trust you either. Trust is created from mutual trust, so whether you have people to trust and whether people trust you or not depends on how you live and treat people. Always look at yourself before blaming anyone.

I have a lot of people that I trust 100% and I'm sure they trust me too. Especially my mother, wife and children, I have never hidden anything from them and vice versa. It would be funny if we live in the same house, see each other every day, but don't trust each other at all. I wouldn't consider it family life.