But that's how the network was actually designed, with the regulated blocks and the fee market. I know it's an inconvenience when the fees are high, but from an objective viewpoint, look how robust the network currently is in the middle of the so-called "Ordinals Attack".
the bitcoin network WAS NOT actually designed like that
before core. there were fee formulas("priority" threshold) where:
50kb of a block was for 0 fee high priority based on a few factors
250kb of a block was for high fee low priority based on a few factors
700kb of a block was for low fee but above min relay fee
priority = sum(input_value_in_base_units * input_age)/size_in_bytes Transactions need to have a priority above 57,600,000 to avoid the enforced limit
simplified
priority = (sats spent * confirm)/txbytes, where priority needs to be above 57,600,000
buy spending in a leaner tx makes number bigger. by having more confirms makes the number bigger, by keeping more sats to spend instead of declare as fee makes the number bigger.. in essense by not spamming every block, by not spending just a few sats, by having a lean tx you can get away with not paying a fee at all and have more priority then a bloaty tx that has a large fee
its not always been the "fee open market" your forum-daddy mentor has told you. its become the way he likes since core removed these things... because dev politics want bitcoin to be expensive and headachy to use.. to promote that people should move over to their commercial middlemen service proposition of subnetworks where they can take a cut of commission from middlemen fees.. they can only charge sustainable middlemen fee's IF using bitcoin direct is not cheap
causing a fee war and fee market is not about "miner" economics. core devs are not tweaking fee calculation junk for some altruistic cause to help miners. its all dev politics to appease their corporate sponsors
bitcoin WAS NOT designed to appease corporate sponsors feature that aid corporate ROI.. but it has become it.. and bitcoin is not AI that changed itself. core devs did.