Every node can have it's own mempool settings. As long as the inputs used in your transaction still exist, a miner can confirm your transaction.
It depends on your wallet how it handles this. If it keeps broadcasting your transaction, it won't "return". If it gives you the option to "abandon" it, you can try that. Or import your keys in a different wallet. So to start: which wallet do you use?

It is just like LoyceV had explained up there, there is no estimated time that a transaction with low fee can either be confirmed or dropped. The OP wants it to be dropped and it seems he used a wallet that has a rebroadcasting feature and the transaction is constantly rebroadcasted or some nodes haven’t dropped the transaction just yet. If the OP actually used a wallet to make that transaction then he can actually import that seed phrase into a wallet like electrum and then try broadcasting a new transaction again by switching the servers because if the transaction is actually below the purging fee then some nodes might have had it dropped. The OP can also double spend the transaction since some nodes actually are full RBF configured. A new transaction confirmed Will invalidate the old one

Provided you have not been rebroadcasting, some Electrum servers will already have dropped your transaction. Go to Tools -> Network and connect to different servers until your unconfirmed transaction changes to saying "Local". You can then right click on your transaction and delete it, and then make a new transaction spending those coins.

Note that if you delete the transaction but don't make a replacement paying a higher fee, the original may still confirm in weeks or even months if the mempool clears.

There is no such thing as frozen coins, unless you are using a custodial third party. OP can replace his transaction with a higher fee paying transaction any time he likes.

You can't turn a non-RBF transaction into RBF transaction just with importing your seed phrase into a wallet that supports RBF.

Of course, this doesn't mean there is no solution if you have a non-RBF unconfirmed transaction and you want to replace it with a new one.

By default, nodes drop transactions from their mempool if they stay unconfirmed for 14 days.
If your transaction has been broadcasted more than 14 days ago, many nodes have dropped your transaction from their mempool and you can import your wallet into electrum, connect to a server that doesn't have your transaction and broadcast a new one.
Note that if the fee rate you used for your transaction is too low, some nodes may drop your transaction due to their mempool size limit even earlier.


You can also replace your transaction with a new one paying higher fee with the help of nodes that have enabled full RBF.
Any node that has enabled full RBF treat all transactions as RBF-enabled and would accept the replacement transaction even if the original one has not been flagged as RBF.

Yes. Import your seed phrase to a good wallet like Sparrow or Electrum, connect to your own full RBF node or a server running full RBF, and broadcast a replacement.

If your current wallet does not support RBF at all as you say, then you should definitely change to a better wallet. Opt in RBF has been the standard for years. I would worry about what security updates your wallet software is missing if they have been unable to implement such a basic feature at any point in almost a decade.

Also if the person that was supposed to get the funds is able to rebroadcast the tx it will not leave the pool.

The has said he does not want to send this.

He has also said he did a low fee. In fact he said a very low fee. To me that is under 5 sats.

maybe even 1 sat.

The receiver may want the coins. He may be rebroadcasting the tx.

This means it will be very hard to get the tx to drop from the pool.

If the receiver has a specialty node I am pretty sure if can repeat the tx via a rebroadcast of it every once in a while.

I suspect anyone that pays 1 or 2 sats.

For that matter even 5 sats is likely to not clear.

So to me this was likely a sleazy send to someone that protects from sleazy sends.

Having a node that rebroadcasts every tx to btc address 1what ever- is doable.

So if the op sent a 1 sat or 2 sat or 5 sat it can be rebroadcasts till it clears.

He could wait forever and it will never drop out.

He can’t do a RBF so his best shot is to try to double spend it to himself. I wish him luck.

Maybe it was an innocent low pay on op’s part. But if it has stuck around 2 months I truly suspect someone is deliberately making it stick around with a specialty node.

Or it will all fix itself in a day. I would not bet on this.

It may, but not simply because of nodes connecting and disconnecting. By default a node will only relay a transaction when it first learns of it. If your node goes offline and comes back online, it doesn't rebroadcast its mempool. Your node will only rebroadcast your own transactions, not its entire mempool.

But yes, someone else could endlessly rebroadcast your transaction so it never drops from the majority of mempools. However, this doesn't matter. It can be replaced at any time regardless, especially now that full RBF is commonplace. Therefore although your original transaction is never dropped from the mempool, your coins are never frozen or stuck and you can still spend them at any time you like by making a higher fee transaction.