Here it is already mentioned about how few lost their bitcoin due to relying on exchanges. The same happens with me; I lost enough just because of this. Now I am still facing troubles because they never come back things are getting worse just because of this. I never trust any exchange
Saying never is not true with your case.
You trusted centralized exchanges, stored your fund there, and lost it, it's your story. You can say like from your experience, since your loss, and when you realized risk of centralized exchanges for fund storage, you have changed your practice and you no longer store your fund on centralized exchanges.
it always recommends everyone to have a wallet with their own control.
The hint and trap are: some people believe wrongly that custodial wallets like centralized exchange accounts are safe and can give them full control.
Reminder: do not keep your money in online accounts.When they understand "It's private key, it's their coin, it's their full control, it's their own bank", they will change their practice.