Based on what Ive read, it seems non coldcard wallets are safe. But how do we know if these other mainstream wallets are safe from other exploits that we currently are not aware of?
Hardware wallet paranoia is gaining momentum?
Hackers will help us find out which wallets are vulnerable and which are not.

Luckily, I do not have a coldcard. But I am not sleeping easy right now with my setup.
Or unfortunately. Because the Coldcard incident is over (it seems), but other devices will likely have to face something similar. Just kidding, just to heighten the fear.

Use the multi-signature feature to improve your sleep.

It seems the scale of this incident (the impact on crypto owners) will only grow, as fear and doubt have been sown in users' minds.
Has there been real academics or non crypto related researchers (unbiased) that have published findings on the open source Trezor software?
It looks like we now know which wallet you own.

Ledger secure element is close source. It is among the wallets that I can not recommend.
Trezor is open source. Its code will be checked from time to times by some other developers. But in case if any bad like this happens, just make sure you use passphrase or go for a multisig wallet to avoid it.
Coldcard was also open source, wasn't it?

So, in light of current events, it's unclear what could be safer.