However, if we look ahead to the next few years, do you think Bitcoin can realistically handle a massive chunk of everyday online commerce?
The next few years are already by the corner and adoption is still very slow, from a quick search, less than 4% of the world population owns bitcoin and since fewer than 1% uses it for transactions, it shows the rest of the less than 4% are just buying and accumulating bitcoin, including myself. So my answer to this question is
NO. The figures of adoption/transactions involving bitcoin should increase and a medium of faster payment like LN reach a bigger adoption before we can think of a "massive chunk"
Consumer behavior on how Bitcoin will be used in the future will be influenced by others around them. If it becomes the behavior of most people who own Bitcoin to start using it for transactions both around them and from one country to another, it will not be long before they are able to influence others who have Bitcoin as well but only have the store of value and investment mindset towards it to start using it for regular transactions.
The problem is that in a good number of countries, bitcoin is illegal and in others, there is unclear regulations towards it, thereby obstructing its efficient use for transactions within countries, a lot of people use it across countries though, starting from campaign managers here who pay for signature campaigns in bitcoin and casinos that accept bitcoin deposits and process its withdrawals, to other services that accept bitcoin payments.
If bitcoin can achieve good intra-country transactional relevance in countries it is legal, then we have a good starting point to proper globalization.