all im reading is about privacy so people cant track you and that a public key will become............ public..
so to quote myself as i think the main point people are truly concerned with is losing their coins, so:
try to explain it to a legit charity that does not care about privacy at all.
example: donation address to seans outpost
he does not care about privacy AT ALL infact he wants the world to know and use that address for donations, and he 'spends' the inputs manytimes a month. explain the risk and/or chance all their donations can be lost by using the same address.
(without meandering into a privacy concern)
the layman wishes to know SECURITY risk not privacy risk
I think you misunderstand. If your public key is known then the security of your address is reduced. Today assuming the wallet implementation is proper it is reduced by 160 bit to 128 bit security. It is the public knowledge of the PubKey which reduces the security of the funds. So public knowledge of the PubKey IS a security not just privacy issue.
Can a known PubKey lead to a loss of funds? In most cases in may not but
* if Quantum Computing ever advances to a point where it is economical to break a 256 bit PubKey your funds could be stolen.
* if cryptanalysis advances to a point where it becomes possible to brute force a 256 bit PubKey your funds could be stolen.
* if your wallet implementation (or underlying library and/or OS) through deliberate intent or negligence ruses the same k value for the same PubKey your funds could be stolen.
There is no way to quantity the risk of the the first two factors however if it happens and you have funds stored in a know pubkey it will be too late. The third scenario has already happened multiple times (android OS and bitcon.js).
The hash of the pubkey is a secondary line of defense. It is like asking why can't I clean a firearm while it is loaded and the safety off. In theory if you do everything right you could accomplish that without incident but taking that risk serves no purpose and if it doesn't end badly for you, if enough people try it, it will end badly for someone.