I understand what you are saying, but a fork in the Bitcoin chain is already in its future.
No matter how much complaining you or anyone else does, it's gonna happen.
My suggestion is that we should embrace it and help it, sure the learning curve on an already very difficult system to understand get a little higher, but the users will manage.
"Do you accept my bitcoins? Oh, no, you accept the OTHER bitcoins?" and this is a problem because? This is where individuals have the opportunity to influence each other to support the best, most efficient system.
Lots of fear with my suggestion; do you really have a problem empowering people to make a different choice?
Just to be clear; I also have skin in the game. I mining on the bitcoin chain. I buy a few dollars of bitcoins everyday; yet, I'm not scared one bit!
Uh, no, forks cannot coexist, its either one or the other, and if either of them find out about the other, the shorter fork's transactions/blocks are discarded completely. You might be thinking of alt/scam coins, which can and do coexist, but are not worth any appreciable amount.
EDIT: Beaten by interlagos

"You might be thinking of alt/scam coins, which can and do coexist"
Well, That's not they way I would personally say it, but ok.
Your post and interlagos are simply pointing out some of the technicals and obstacles that must be considered to make a fork possible and coexist - overcoming these are just a small part of what I was implying when I said "make Bitcoin fork friendly". Some things would need to be changed just like things need to be changed to utilize multi-signatures.
BTW, A fork is very similar to an "alt/scam" chain with one key difference: The coin holder before the fork will automatically own the same amount of coins in both chains.
Like I said before, a fork will happen. Don't know when - might be a decade, but it will happen.
Let's embrace and make it Fork friendly.
The intention of my post here in the BIP 16 BIP 17 thread was to throw out some ideas and hopefully persuade a few bitcoin programmers to take up this crusade. No one interested? OK, moving on.
.......... Back to BIP 16 BIP 17.
I don't have a problem supporting either one. Please make it happen. If there's a bug or problem down the road.. well, I'm confident it will be dealt with properly.