ok, so I finally have sync. Used the delete everything, start with new wallet, open and close a few times with stealth.conf file added in and I am synced. Shut it down, put my original wallet.dat back in, started stealth again and did repairwallet and my coins are back. Just sucks that those 4 days the wallet was open don't count towards the stake. I am back down to a weight of 4 instead 2k+ or whatever it was before. Oh well, at least is synced before I go to bed. hehe Thanks for your help.
No. Your coins still age even if your wallet is offline or out of sync.
