i run a few daemons on a vps.
ExclusiveCoind is not that friendly it seems.
i left it running after syncing with one other daemon. and it lost sync and is several hundred blocks behind.
now looking at the debug - while the other daemon is running it gets a new block between 20 - 60 secs .
without it running it loads about 2/second
edit.
hmm seems the vps itself is laggy .. will have to test further
Yeah, I've found the same - ExclusiveCoind is pretty resource-intensive compared to most other coins' daemons. If you run it simultaneously with other wallets, there can be synching and timeout issues. I found that (on a small VPS) it's best to run ExclusiveCoind by itself, or at most, with one other wallet that you know is not resource intensive (e.g. a POW wallet that is not mining or staking).
Love the coin though

cool. good to know it's not just me

the vps is a digital ocean one. on the amsterdam3 group.
it does seem a bit slow/laggy but that may well be related to physical location.
do you use digital ocean. if so what location is yr exclusive daemon running ?
i'm going to have to consider my options if it doesnt want to play friendly ...
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twoturtles/syntaks
could you tell me what code you cloned for this version ? just curious.