Do we include the private key in message? If yes, is it not problem?
And where to post the signed message to proof my bitcointalk? So if get hack i can use it to proof.
NO!You should NEVER put your private key anywhere!

Did you read the very first post in this thread? There are clear instructions there on how to sign messages...
The only data that should be posted when you're signing a message is:
- The Message
- The Address you "signed" the Message with
- The encrypted "signature" that was created when you signed the message
There is also a thread for "staking" addresses...
https://bt.irlbtc.com/view/996318.new#new