ssshhh and qbd1313 wallet don't want sync whith this addnote

What version of the wallet are you using?
Also, where have you put the particle.conf file?
e.g
C:\Documents and Settings\**YourUserName**\Application Data\Particle\particle.conf
for windows XPC:\Users\**YourUserName**\AppData\Roaming\Particle\particle.conf
for windows 7 /home/**YourUserName**/.particle/particle.conf
for linux/Users/**YourUserName**/Library/Application Support/Particle/particle.conf
for mac