Can't blame him, every newbies don't know about that search engine until later, I was on the forum for like 6 months before I know how to use that search engine, it's not that complicated but id just ignore and don't look into it because I don't see anyone telling me to do so, since the OP account is new it can be overlooked.
I actually have a son but he his too little to know how a crypto wallet works, can't wait to see him grow so that I can teach him how to do it all, I plan to leave my Bitcoin wallet for him dead or alive it doesn't matter, my partner has his own separate Bitcoin wallet and I've never asked what he planned to do with his wallet. For now the goal is to live a healthy life for a long period of time, enough to raise kids into adults and guide them right so that all we worked for won't go to waste.

I have similar approach with a link behind an url shortner.
I wrote my recovery instructions in a document, uploaded it somewhere private, and shared the link through a channel with my relatives.

If you used a link shortener with access tracking, you could even tell if someone opened the instructions while you were still alive — it gave you a heads-up if your security was compromised.

I think many new people to Bitcoin are focusing on the wrong thing entirely instead of planning on how to accumulate a lot of Bitcoin they are planning on how the next of kin can inherit the Bitcoin that they do not have yet. The entire focus of a new person to investing in crypto should be on how they are going to accumulate a lot of Bitcoin, something that is big enough for them to start considering who is going to have access to it if something suddenly happens to them. I feel a lot of persons do not actually consider it, just as we have many people who do not consider whom the bank should grant access to the accounts on the case of their death and that constitutes a lot of problem for the family members when they go to the bank to try and claim the money in the account of their loved ones after their death.

Sometimes I tends to think too much and beginning to question why we don't have something like a single password and phrase holders that we can have it stored offline, and giving those that are close to us the access to them, but when you have that in place it Will bring another risk along with it, what I know is that once you have trusted people around your giving them knowledge and access becomes very easy because at that point they know how to handle things since they have seen you doing that.

Everyone's financial situation is different. Some new investor can afford to buy and own a few BTC or even a few dozen BTC with their very first purchase. For people like that, thinking about inheritance planning from day one is perfectly reasonable.
Besides, life is full of unexpected event. Planning your Bitcoin inheritance early is not pointless, nor does it interfere with accumulating Bitcoin. The two can easily be done at the same time.

As the saying goes, prevention is better than cure. So there is nothing wrong with new investors planning for inheritance, regardless of how much Bitcoin they own.

As all others said, this has already been discussed a lot of time.

The best middle ground isn't putting seed phrases in a Will or relying on a single password, but using a collaborative 2-of-3 multisig setup paired with a separate legal plan. This allows you to retain full sovereign control over your funds today, while ensuring a trusted partner or executor can help your non-technical heirs combine the remaining keys to recover the assets cleanly if something ever happens to you.

Or simply you just put it on paper and hand it over to a person you really trust enough, and personally since I didnt have much of crypto I only share my pass on my sister and that all and she barely knew about it haha

This is a very valid conversation, a good number of people i have had chats with in this regards do scare away from this conversation most times and that is usually because they do think of it to be some really huge technical formalities which some of them are not ready to discuss or consider and even most of the the threads i have red through in this regard mostly make it look like some actual technical burden and so it mostly encourages people not to think in that direction because they may not want to be involved in too many technicalities, but if there is a way we could simplify this thing, you will find many getting involved in it if it still guarantees the safety of their wallets when they are still alive.

There's no need for any ambiguity in all of this, simplify it and make people know that it is possible they have their wallet secured and also have a provision for access by others in the future should the need arises. one of the provisions i have seen many discuss on here are mostly inheritance focused but we are not saying much about emergencies, should it arise that you are not in a position to be able to use gadgets and get the funds out to save your own life, don't we think we should have a second plan for such cases? we make this money for the betterment of our lives by the way, so why all the tight security even to our detriment in some cases? get a trusted party, equip them with as much information as possible and get a legal restriction on their access to the fund with exceptions and you have 90%  of the stress of you, it's that simple with less of all the complications.

So far I don’t have anyone as my next of kin, and I don’t have anyone to inherit my bitcoin or access bitcoin after I’m gone, right now I’m mostly interested in buying bitcoin, and adding enough bitcoin into my portfolio, when the time comes for me to get married and have a family, then I will use my kids as people who will inherit my bitcoin, well if I don’t have a family or don’t have any kids yet, I might decide to use any of my extended family member as someone who will inherit my bitcoins, but I would like that person to know about bitcoin or probably also continue from where I stopped in buying bitcoin and continue investing in bitcoin as well, if I get to over accumulating, nothing stops me from taking my profits from my bitcoin investments, and still continue investing.

Payment for the lawyer is expensive and painful for financial budget but the risk is not only about money.

It is risk with the laywer's actions in the future. He she is a lawyer, that's good but you can not completely trust any person with your private keys because they can turn evil and steal your bitcoins or your children's inherited bitcoins.

With Bitcoin, it is simple, only private keys are enough to move the fund, and it's unlike selling a real estate, an asset that can need the owner signature.

If something to do, I would like to do a little bit complicated thing like splitting private keys and custom words such as private keys hold by the lawyer, custom words are known by the children or family. It can avoid risk from the lawyer but it's complex idea and still cost expensive payment to the lawyer that in my opinion is not worth to spend.

This has actually been asked a lot on this forum, so maybe you just haven't read it. So next time,, try to take the time to find a thread that has the answer to your question. But yes, this time it's probably okay because you're still a beginner.

Then, speaking of inheriting Bitcoin, I've definitely done this. Basically, my wife and I both know the password for my Bitcoin wallet. So if something were to happen to me, my wife would definitely be the one to take care of the Bitcoin in it. So, while this does carry a slight risk, I don't think it's wrong at all. Because my wife is someone I trust. So I'm sure everything will be fine. Because right now,, I don't have anyone I can trust besides my wife, and my child is still small. And besides,, I don't want to be too paranoid about this. Because it definitely makes me dizzy if I keep thinking about it. So, I feel that what I'm doing right now is quite safe,, in my personal opinion. But yes, everyone has their own way of securing their bitcoins, so it's up to them.