Is it better to leave our money in a large regulated institution, where there are rules and, if there is a problem, you can go to court?
Self-custody gives the user direct control over their Bitcoin, but it also puts all the responsibility on them.
Some people may have difficulties dealing with this. A seed phrase kept in an unsafe place, a compromised computer or phone, a lost backup, or simply a security mistake can be enough to lose all your Bitcoin forever.
Older people, who have difficulties with technology, may have more problems with the wallet and security.
And for someone who has a large amount of Bitcoin, does it really make sense to put everything in self-custody?
Those who finds taking full control of their investments may find it difficult to cope with Bitcoin investment, and they will find solace in other forms of investment. The presence of regulatory institutions coming into the crypto industry is paving way for people like this to have a safe form of investment in the crypto market, of which is good to increase the rate of mass adoption.
Older people who are not technologically inclined are to either keep off from crypto investment, or just learn the very basics of protecting their assets and leave the rest.
Maybe it is better to diversify not only between different forms of custody, but also between Bitcoin, traditional investments and regulated institutions.
The idea of diversification is not a bad one, not all investors will leave their investments to solely be on Bitcoin, there are other investment assets that are worth investing. What makes Bitcoin/crypto investment different is simply because it is not under anybody's control, except you the investor, and letting anyone know about it is at your own risk. Unlike traditional forms of investments, where at the point of registration/getting the assets, you fill a form immediately for a NOK, in case anything happens, this is automatic, while in crypto investment, you the investor have the personal decision to add NOK or let it be.