It would be hard, but a consensus of users (who stand to profit by stopping the deterioration of bitcoin) could come up reasonable formulas for the acceptance of transactions in blocks. The 1 trans miner could fix the problem and continue or try to resist. The point is the 1 trans miner would be working against bitcoin and therefore his juicy profits if he did resist. If they are smarter they will either fix it (which could be including just paid transactions) or keep to the rough level they are at now.
Just because one has a ton of power, does not mean using all is in their own best interest. There is a bell curve of profitability for this situation, and they are pretty close to the top right now.
Never, ever underestimate the stupidity of a script kiddie.I just had a script kiddie threaten all kinds of DDoS type of attacks on our business, and even log entries with his IP trying to gain access to one of our control panels, and he threatened under his own name, his full contact details inputted into our system and publicly available, and he hosts warez sites under his real identity.
Googling his name resulted in his facebook, google plus accounts plus a lot of other information confirming his identity.
Script kiddies are the most intellectually challenged, ego driven maniacs you can think of. certain things just don't
"compute" for them.
and that's not even the only case, i've seen people bragging about doing DoS type of attacks, under their own real name, all verifiable what has happened, and every bit of evidence pointing to them, like
asking to get jailed!
As for 51% attack, as bitcoin grows it becomes even harder and harder to pull of, eventually being near impossible to pull of. Before that point is met, it's just expected that some people might come close to that. But as BTC value drives up, so does miner rewards and that much harder it becomes!