Also want to start this convo on reddit guys..
http://www.reddit.com/r/CreatorOfTheUniverse/Wrote this there as well thought I should share..
Imagine if we lived in a world where we were taught how to process our emotional damage in a responsible or loving manner.. One could feel anger in a way which would not damage another soul. Unfortunately on earth its become common place that everything we do or strive to do is driven by a desire to dodge our emotions through our addictions.
When a person feels a negative emotion in public the level of discomfort that causes people is tremendous, most people either block their respective feelings or look away. If a man cries he is called weak and perceived as lesser, if a woman feels anger she is not lady like. We have created constructs we honor which literally force us to die weak and frail ridden with ailments. please note I say WE... Because though I know this my fear of feeling emotion has stopped me for a long time. Terror is the last emotion I have yet to unlock... we bottle this shit up for so long and act like everything is perfect on the outside, or we prefer to feed our respective addictions:Eating,Sleeping,Physical Pleasure and a myriad of hobbies to name a few. We take medication to run from both our PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL baggage but we never truly find happiness.
We are all so arrogant as beings of this universe, we assume we either created it or it created itself. We are so rebellious and self reliant that we attempt to interact completely independent from the laws which have been lovingly put in place in our universe. Until we grow in humility and try to nurture a genuine EMOTIONAL desire to experiment with the possibility of developing an actual honest relationship with the creator of the universe, we will continue on this path of destruction. We must learn to open our hearts and stop running from our pain.
Living in complete emotional ignorance irresponsibly hating and projecting on everyone around us.. All the while we are controlled by an emotionally damaged few who are ignorant themselves in why they really do the things they do? The answer is we havent ever been able to.. Look at the world around you. Parents/guardians rape/abuse their children in complete ignorance (more than likely they themselves experienced deep seated trauma) and then tell the child I did that because you deserved it..Or I only did this because I love you
This is just ONE example out of millions
Now this child has ingrained in him/her the feeling that it deserves to be abused
Fast forward 28 years later and you have a 32 year old woman who lives with a man who beats her every night and she stays because she loves him.. How will we ever break this cycle if we are not taught this in school? Now we have people making statements like Love hurts
No
Love cannot hurt This is a construct of man induced by fear...
Love is creation,
Love is healing.. .. Anger
hurts
Sadness
hurts
Rejection
hurts
Fear
hurts.. Pain
Hurts
This stuff is not taught to us we run around our day to day lives just fighting to keep our head above our debts and we treat each other with no respect or love
and then our physical bodies die.. Am I the only one who is saddened by this?