so, i have a solution for the amount of memory the wallet uses. but its only like a half fix. upon initial startup it will still use over 1 GB but as soon as it is fully loaded it will shrink back down to less than 250 MB. however as the chain gets longer the issue will be you still that initial boost of over 1 GB of memory in order to initially load. fixing this problem is proving to be more difficult because of the way the wallet reads a users transactions into the chain. i am thinking of putting in the half solution for now and then fixing the other part later. also i have an auto updater and installer for the wallet now. let me know what you guys think about these things.