My weight is now over 3,000 and I have had over 100 coins for 2 weeks. Haven't gotten any stakes yet. (v1.4.3-DV wallet). When can I expect to get a stake?
In reality, if you don't have thousands and thousands of Onion with a staking weight in the 100,000's, I honestly don't think ever. For an optimistic guess, maybe 3 years, based on the network weight also always increasing? I'm not the best one to ask, but you've got to recalibrate your expectations

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I love DO for it's potential future utility and have held DO -in a similar weight range- for weeks and weeks and have never staked. Not the end of the world.