So once May 24th hits, how exactly DO we get our LISK (those of us who bought in during ICO)?
I've validated my passphrase, key status says 'accepted'.
My only guess would be that on May 24th, they release a download link for a wallet?
If that is the case - how would the process of moving our coins from the website to wallet work? Just because we 'validated' our passphrases on the site doesn't mean it's linked to any given wallet that's downloaded...sorry for the stupid question, I'm just getting nervous as the supposed 'launch' date inches closer

You will use the 12 word passphrase that you validated on login.lisk.io after mainnet launch and your lisk will be there. If you want you can then create another wallet address and send it there or to the exchange.
I think they will be working on the download wallet after the launch of the mainnet.